I'm asked what my obsession is with trauma bonds and toxic relationships. There is no obsession. I suppose it's my drive to point out the signs that should be noticed. Think of it as a P.S.A. for you to be on the lookout for yourself or your friends. I wish my friends would have approached … Continue reading Surviving a Relationship & the Effects of the Trauma Bond
Narcissistic Abuse
Poison Paradise
why we hold onto toxicity
The start of something HUGE
Just a little something I'm working on. Will I post more about this in the future? Who knows but here's a baby step to my personal path towards healing. It gets better. It has to... Right?
Trauma Poem
There can be beauty in the ugly thoughts that consume us.
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Mission Control
It's been a while since I've had the chance to write. I take that back, I've had chances, but I was distracted. There are things I don't share about my life (shocking, eh?) I'm generally an open book but it's not that I want privacy. It's the fact that I hide my shame. I'm filled … Continue reading Mission Control
Consistently Inconsistent
I was always the person who you could count on to finish any project. If you saw my name in the group, you'd notice the smiles because they knew they wouldn't have to do anything. When I saw the smiles, I thought they really wanted to work with me because I had this incredible insight. … Continue reading Consistently Inconsistent
Anticipation
We can never know about the days to comeBut we think about them anywayAnd I wonder if I'm really with you nowOr just chasing after some finer day Anticipation- Carly Simon That song keeps playing through my mind today as I wait to see what unfolds.Something you don't know about me is that I fell … Continue reading Anticipation
Should I Stay or Should I Go Now?
Rather than the Clash song coming to mind, I can't help but hear Mystikal say "hit it one time you're hooked. They call me the pu$$% crook" In all seriousness, what makes us stay in a relationship that others label as toxic? When you think about it, we're only sharing our side of the story. … Continue reading Should I Stay or Should I Go Now?
