I was always the person who you could count on to finish any project. If you saw my name in the group, you’d notice the smiles because they knew they wouldn’t have to do anything. When I saw the smiles, I thought they really wanted to work with me because I had this incredible insight. The joke was on me. This also was the moment I was labeled as a codependent and it most definitely was before I knew I was codependent. I’m sure if came about sooner, but that was the realization