Sometimes in life, we meet someone who leaves an indelible mark on our soul—a person whose presence shifts the course of our journey in ways we could never have imagined. For me, that person came into my life in 2019, during one of the most challenging periods I’ve ever faced.
Diagnosed with Stage 4 Neuroendocrine cancer, I was met with closed doors at nearly every turn. Other hospitals refused to operate, leaving me with little hope. But then, I was introduced to someone who, through her connections with Moffitt Cancer Center, offered a lifeline I so desperately needed. She believed in my fight and in the possibility of a second chance, and because of her, I’m still here today.
She’s been on my mind ever since, and as I reflect on my journey, I realize just how much I owe her. It’s not just the gift of life that she gave me, but the hope, the belief that there was a future worth fighting for.
The Power of Gratitude
Gratitude is more than just a thank you—it’s a profound acknowledgment of the impact someone has had on our lives. It’s an emotion that carries weight, and when expressed, it can create a ripple effect of positivity and connection. Gratitude helps us focus on what we have rather than what we lack, and it fosters a deeper appreciation for the people and moments that shape us.
So how do we show gratitude? Here are a few examples:
- A Heartfelt Note: Writing a letter to express your gratitude can be incredibly meaningful. It allows you to convey emotions and thoughts that might be difficult to express verbally.
- Pay It Forward: Sometimes the best way to show gratitude is by helping someone else. Whether it’s volunteering, offering support to someone in need, or simply being there for a friend, paying it forward keeps the cycle of kindness going.
- Reconnect: Reach out to those who have made a difference in your life, as I’ve done with the person who gave me my second chance. Let them know the impact they’ve had on you and how much you appreciate them.
Reflecting on the Helpers Along the Way
As I look back on my journey, I am reminded of all the people who stood by me—friends, family, medical professionals, and even strangers. Each of them played a role in my survival, whether they knew it or not. Their support, love, and encouragement gave me the strength to keep going.
We often pride ourselves on our resilience, on our ability to withstand life’s storms. But did we really make it alone? I know I didn’t. And that’s okay—because the truth is, we’re all interconnected. Our stories, our struggles, and our victories are woven together by the people who touch our lives.
So, I encourage you to take a moment to reflect on those who have helped you along the way. Reach out, express your gratitude, and let them know that they’ve made a difference. Because while we may be resilient, it’s the love and support of others that truly carry us through.
In reconnecting with the person who saved my life, I am reminded of the incredible power of gratitude. It’s a reminder to not only cherish the second chance I’ve been given but to also honor those who helped me get here.
We are stronger together, and sometimes, a simple thank you can change everything.
Hanna : a “thank you” will never be the right words to convey my strong emotions towards your kindness, friendship, and everything in between.
I wish you a lifetime of happiness and thank you for existing. This world needs more people like you in it.
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My dear Christina. I have no words and have such profound joy that you are here and we are re-connected. Hanna
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Well, this is huge. To have someone who basically saved your life is a huge cause for gratitude.
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